It is not uncommon for individuals who have never been involved in this type of romance to wonder if their partner has a disorder.
Could there be an underlying neurological cause for the violating or dangerous behaviors? Individuals with personality disorders have difficulty relating to others, resulting in rocky relationships.
I read about OCPD and it was like reading my journal. Fast forward 14 years and he is almost exactly the same.
I say almost because at year five, I contacted a lawyer, had an apartment set up and was ready to take my 4 and 2 year-old away. We were in and out of counseling from the beginning and I got tired of waiting for him to change-so I changed. Until then, he will be on his best behavior, fall off the wagon, get back on and fall off again.
Veel van deze vrouwen zijn wanhopige alleenstaande moeders en gehuwde vrouwen die op zoek zijn naar spannend plezier. Ga je ermee akkoord om de identiteit van deze vrouwen geheim te houden?
A few weeks a ago, I was looking for some information that would help me deal with my 12 year-old daughter.
(e.g., "You're stupid," too emotional," fat," insecure," always holding on to the past,"paranoid," crazy.") Within relationships of this type, their partners often feel inferior, worthless or 'less than.' Their mates are often kept off balance chasing after what they think will appease the disordered partner. For many involved with a psychopath, the disrespect immediately shifts into abuse and creates a traumatic relationship for their victim.
OCPD is short for Obsessive Compulsive Personality Disorder.However, starting out as or striving to become the "perfect" partner is neither possible nor desirable.In fact, strong perfectionist traits usually prevent healthy relationship formation.I simply could not trust him to put the kid's needs before his own. I also moved out once, we did therapy, and he totally snowed the therapist.I accommodated his "you have to be home by if you go out because I can't sleep if you're not here," and "we can't spend money on fixing up the house because I don't like it when people are in the house." And too many other things to list... You cannot say anything negative about his behavior or he will retaliate in a heartbeat. It has always been a struggle, but my decision is to stay with him, I have found activities that complete my life.