The other important component is that people with BPD (women and men alike) be afforded opportunities for recovery, such as DBT, and that they take advantage of such opportunities.
Through therapy, we can learn how to adapt our behaviors from dysfunctional to highly effective. If you are a woman with Borderline Personality Disorder and are concerned about how this will affect your ability to find and maintain a relationship with a mate, keep in mind - first of all - the issue of boundaries.
Only two people amid a sea of professionals were hopeful.
When I forgive you, I will race, Race right into your loving caress. The therapist we found was encouraging and wonderful.
I had started doing my own research into mental disorders when my son was diagnosed a few years before, and something I read was niggling at my brain. He agreed that her behaviors and thought patterns absolutely fit the description of borderline personality disorder and suggested we find a therapist certified in cognitive behavioral therapy (CBT).
Dear future lover, Like my identity, my emotions can flip. My son has bipolar disorder, and while I’m fully aware it doesn’t present the same for everyone, the diagnosis didn’t seem to fit her symptoms. I was met with condescension for the most part until she was 15, when a suicide attempt landed her in the hospital yet again and the doctor treating her had more concern for her welfare.
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Coming up with strategies for dealing with your partner's extreme behaviors will help you keep your sanity.
then I manipulate & punish, and my dark side comes and takes me over, where I need no one, I don't talk for days, but there are other triggers for me, but I've been in an out of a particular relationship for nearly 10 years now, just over the past 2 years we've started to understand it a little more and more.
watch out for the splitting of the borderline & others, which is basically a powerful black and white thinking coping mechanism, this can be very confusing for both borderline & partner, borderlines can be real loving people, but we need to be shown that we're loved every day, as our minds have a "love amnesia" we know that love exists but we really don't believe in it, it's a tough ride being in a relationship with a borderline my fiancé says but it's what makes me me, hope this helps a little, any questions just ask, I'll try to help as much as I can, but maybe a femail borderline may give a little better insight oh btw, read, read, read, as much as you can, you can never no enough about anything borderline, you could even ask your girlfriend for help understanding what borderline personality disorder is, and how it effects her, we can be quite self centred at times, but this is very normal oh btw, read, read, read, as much as you can, you can never no enough about anything borderline, you could even ask your girlfriend for help understanding what borderline personality disorder is, and how it effects her, we can be quite self centred at times, but this is very normal Thanks for the insight!
I have been dating a woman for about a month and a half now; a week or two ago she confessed to having BPD.
The more I read up on it, the more worried I become.